Our destiny is created by the words we say to ourselves and to others and by the thoughts that we allow ourselves to focus on. Perhaps this is easier said than done but what we practice grows stronger. Like any sport or musical instrument the more that we practice, and the harder we try, and the more passionate that we become the more likely we are to succeed. This is reality. Also the more we associate with positive people who are making a difference in the world the more that we will be inspired to be like them.